Even in the Time of COVID

Even in the Time of COVID
Even in the Time of COVID

I published my first book of poetry, dedicated to my mother who died of COVID-19 the day after Thanksgiving. It is available as a printed book and in ebook format through Blurb.

2020 was a stressful year for most of us, with joys amid the limitations and sorrows. The fourteen poems in this book reflect my pandemic experiences as I hunkered down at home, and shifted to virtual visitation with my mother who was in a nursing home.

As my mother's POA, I purchased for her (with her own money) a lovely Celtic harp and learned to play some simple tunes for her during our Facetime visits. It was a wonderful way for us to have quality time together, and she enjoyed my playing and a number of sing alongs. Even with her dementia she remembered the lyrics to many of her old favorites and popular tunes. So there was much to be thankful for, including the technology that made it possible for us to spend time together.

Here is the text poem from which the book takes its title:

Even in the Time of COVID

You went peacefully
Even though it was
The time of COVID
When so many with it
Did not.
And we were able
To be with you
In your final days
Final hours
As you took those
Last
Faint
Final
Imperceptible breaths.
We watched
From our homes
As others cared for you
So kindly
So thoughtfully
So tenderly
And we had peace
Even in our sadness.
Family gathered together
Around the globe
To be with you
As you calmly
Gently
And with dignity
Slipped away.
 
If you would like to order the book, click here to purchase at Blurb.


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Welcome 2021!

Hoping for a better year for everyone. I have rarely ventured out since March 3rd, 2020, the last time I visited my Mom at her Florida nursing home. Sadly, she died of Covid-19 the day after Thanksgiving, at the age of 92. Fortunately she went fairly quickly, kept comfortable by hospice at a local hospital. Family and friends were able to have a virtual vigil in her final hours, set up by the wonderful nursing staff. It was hard not to be there in person, which was not allowed, and we were very appreciative of the technology that makes it possible to be there when you can't be there. We also had hours of family support in her final days via group Messenger video visits, and a virtual Jazz funeral to celebrate our New Orleans roots.

This is a poem I wrote shortly after her passing, along with a photo of my Mom in her younger years.
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Mom and me in video visit
During the long months before her passing, when visiting was not allowed, I purchased a Celtic harp and learned to play some melodies for my Mom during our video visits. I'd spend an hour most days playing for her, and doing some favorite sing-alongs. She had vascular dementia, but up to the end she still remembered me, and as is typical of people with dementia, songs and music.

Here's a wee bit of Cold Frosty Morn:



I will cherish those memories, along with all the happy times in childhood - the wonderful birthday parties she planned for my sisters and me, her love of family and family history, her sense of humor. And the "I know a song about that" family tradition she started to quell a squabble between young siblings many years ago. It is now enjoyed by three generations of her descendants!

I got my artistic abilities from my Dad's side (lol, plus lots of study and practice), but my Mom did take one of my favorite photos of me, totally unposed, when I was about a year old:


I will post again soon with some of the art I have been creating, and updates on my perennial plans to publish a book of my art and poetry.



Note: All original photos, images, and text on this page are my own, copyrighted by me. If you want to add them to a social website such as Pinterest, please only do so if you credit the photographer (Randi Kuhne) and link to this page. If you want to use my photos in your blog, you must ask permission first.